What I Thought Skincare Was vs. What It Actually Is
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“I used to think skincare was about fixing things — pores, pimples, wrinkles.”
I thought it was about achieving flawless skin. Clear. Porcelain. Always glowing.
So I chased it.
More products, stronger acids, tighter routines, higher expectations.
But instead of perfection, I got frustration.
And what I realized along the way is this: skincare isn’t about fixing. It’s about listening.
💡 Skincare, Then vs. Now
| THEN | NOW |
|---|---|
| Cover and control | Care and restore |
| More = better | Less = deeper |
| “What’s wrong with my skin?” | “What is my skin trying to say?” |
| Harsh exfoliation | Gentle hydration |
| Panic over breakouts | Curiosity and kindness |
I used to see my skin as a project.
Now, I see it as a conversation.
And just like any relationship, it thrives when I show up with softness, not judgment.
🌿 My Current Skincare Ritual (That Actually Feels Like Care)
1️⃣ Start slow, melt away the day
lanijam’s calming cleansing balm helps me reset without rushing. No foam. No sting. Just warm hands and a soft towel — like an exhale.
2️⃣ Hydrate deeply, but lightly
lanijam’s hyaluronic acid serum feels like giving my skin a drink of water. It disappears into my skin, leaving calm in its place.
3️⃣ Seal it in, and let go
lanijam’s overnight repair mask reminds me that good things happen while I rest.
I don’t need to see results by morning. I just need to show up — and trust the ritual.
🌸 Final Thought
Skincare isn’t a battle plan. It’s a rhythm.
And it’s not about changing your skin — it’s about caring for the part of you that holds it all together.
lanijam isn’t here to fix you — it’s here to support you, gently.